This post is inspired by the thoughts, conversations, and experiences of me and my line brothers. Probably some of the realest group of individuals I've ever met in my life (Yea I said it). Anyways in the midst of one of my conversations wit tha LB's we entered an epic debate about....women. Surprised? I didn't think so. Anyways there is huge misnomer about women and the definition of a 'hoe'. What is a hoe? Can we call women hoes? Should we label women 'hoes' if deemed appropriate?
Most of my generation has deemed a 'hoe' as a person that has a large number of sexual partners. "Oh she said she had sex wit ____ people?!" "Yea she's a hoe man." Personally I don't believe that is what makes up a 'hoe'. Granted I definitely wouldn't talk to a girl with triple digits or as many partners as there are states in America, but a 'hoe' is not solely determined by a number.
A hoe is someone who has no regards for who she's having a sex with. She could only have ever had five sexual partners and out of those five, three of them were friends or in the same clique....she could be considered a hoe. If she had sex with roommates, she most likely is a hoe. If every dude she has sex with is in a relationship, that she's aware of, then she's hoe. Point Blank.
Pretty much anything else is people's personal standards of the opposite sex.
And for any females reading this post. Being a hoe is just a state of mind, you can be reformed it just takes some time! You can make it! and no there is no double standard on a guy vs. a girl being a 'hoe'. The only difference is that men accept being called a hoe. Some dudes actually relish the term. Now there is a double standard on the social acceptance of a guy being a hoe, BUT that doesn't change the fact that the term fits. *shrugs* not fair but true.
Why So Serious?!
Good stuff, I definitely was curious about wat makes a hoe a hoe. Right on time
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ReplyDeleteI agree whole-heartedly with the analysis of the term "hoe". And I also agree with the fact that every woman has the chance to redeem herself. But it needs to be understood that everybody has a past and if your over the age of 18 you've been fuckin. And theres no need to be ashamed of that (Right??). And chances are that most people have had one of those drunken, schwasted nights and some sexual shit went on that you might not be so proud of. But just remember the wise words of J Cole "Im not sayin she a hoe, just made a hoe decision."
ReplyDeleteAND IM GONE!!!!