I was going to write a post about how to know or how to figure out the signs of a woman when you first interact. But then I thought: .....Females are way too complicated and secretive for that. Most females don't want you to really know their signs anyways because they want it to be some mystery or struggle. Point Blank, most females just want a guy to come up and approach them. (But if it where that easy then most guys would just feel free to walk up to any female and ask them for everything!...and I mean everything lol.) As a guy you have to know going in....she might play the crap outta me right here....
...so instead I chose to speak about something that I understand a little more. Signs that a GUY will read from a woman to know he's being chosen. Granted, there are times when females might do these things and honestly might not be interested in the dude at all. But to that I say: Stop doing these things and I promise you'll have less guy confusion in your life.
1. The Double Take "Choose". So you chilling with your boys. You'll are out a lil lounge spot, laughing, joking having a good time. A bad woman walks by and you'll make eye contact. You smile, she smiles, innocent interaction. But if she breaks eye contact and tries to take a secret second look....she chose. Never let a guy see the double take because we automatically put that in the "choose" category.
2. Extended Dance "Choose". So you're in the club dancing with a female to one of your favorite songs. After a songs or two normally the routine is you separate, you go about your way and you enjoy the rest of your night. Sometimes you have those situations where a normal dance turns into a marathon of slow grinding, reggae twirking, and line-dance two-stepping and when that happens....she 'choose'. Personally if I see a girl dance with a guy for more than 3 songs I assume she's "interested" in that guy.
3. "...next time" "Choose". This "choose" is basically when you're conversing with a female, casual converstation, friendly converstation. In the midst of the conversation she mentions a future interaction between you'll. "Yea so next time you should do this, or we can do this." Instantly she's letting you know she wants. If a female that has never met you or had a real conversation with is already planning future events with you.....yea she wants you.
-"Why So Serious?!"
Apr 16, 2011
Apr 2, 2011
What is a 'Hoe'?!
This post is inspired by the thoughts, conversations, and experiences of me and my line brothers. Probably some of the realest group of individuals I've ever met in my life (Yea I said it). Anyways in the midst of one of my conversations wit tha LB's we entered an epic debate about....women. Surprised? I didn't think so. Anyways there is huge misnomer about women and the definition of a 'hoe'. What is a hoe? Can we call women hoes? Should we label women 'hoes' if deemed appropriate?
Most of my generation has deemed a 'hoe' as a person that has a large number of sexual partners. "Oh she said she had sex wit ____ people?!" "Yea she's a hoe man." Personally I don't believe that is what makes up a 'hoe'. Granted I definitely wouldn't talk to a girl with triple digits or as many partners as there are states in America, but a 'hoe' is not solely determined by a number.
A hoe is someone who has no regards for who she's having a sex with. She could only have ever had five sexual partners and out of those five, three of them were friends or in the same clique....she could be considered a hoe. If she had sex with roommates, she most likely is a hoe. If every dude she has sex with is in a relationship, that she's aware of, then she's hoe. Point Blank.
Pretty much anything else is people's personal standards of the opposite sex.
And for any females reading this post. Being a hoe is just a state of mind, you can be reformed it just takes some time! You can make it! and no there is no double standard on a guy vs. a girl being a 'hoe'. The only difference is that men accept being called a hoe. Some dudes actually relish the term. Now there is a double standard on the social acceptance of a guy being a hoe, BUT that doesn't change the fact that the term fits. *shrugs* not fair but true.
Why So Serious?!
Most of my generation has deemed a 'hoe' as a person that has a large number of sexual partners. "Oh she said she had sex wit ____ people?!" "Yea she's a hoe man." Personally I don't believe that is what makes up a 'hoe'. Granted I definitely wouldn't talk to a girl with triple digits or as many partners as there are states in America, but a 'hoe' is not solely determined by a number.
A hoe is someone who has no regards for who she's having a sex with. She could only have ever had five sexual partners and out of those five, three of them were friends or in the same clique....she could be considered a hoe. If she had sex with roommates, she most likely is a hoe. If every dude she has sex with is in a relationship, that she's aware of, then she's hoe. Point Blank.
Pretty much anything else is people's personal standards of the opposite sex.
And for any females reading this post. Being a hoe is just a state of mind, you can be reformed it just takes some time! You can make it! and no there is no double standard on a guy vs. a girl being a 'hoe'. The only difference is that men accept being called a hoe. Some dudes actually relish the term. Now there is a double standard on the social acceptance of a guy being a hoe, BUT that doesn't change the fact that the term fits. *shrugs* not fair but true.
Why So Serious?!
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